Many times on my dance lessons, I get asked by my male students, "How do I ask a lady to dance?" I feel that how we ask someone to do something with us is very important because we definitely prefer they say " Yes"! As a woman, I prefer a gentleman hold out his arm or hand and simply say, "Shall we dance?" Always approach a lady with confidence and a smile. You must assume that she will say yes to you before you ask her. You cannot go wrong if you act like a gentleman. If you